If penetration is not on the table (er, bed), she suggests exploring oral-to-nipple stimulation, hand hanky-panky, making out, ear and neck licking/sucking/tongue-flicking, external vibrator use, and grinding. So rather than fast thrusting, try slow rocking.
And it's all about slow, soulful lovemaking, she emphasizes. The Lotus Position is a cross-legged sitting asana originating in meditative practices of ancient India, in which the feet are placed on the opposing thighs. 'Typically, the partner on the bottom will penetrate the partner on top, and then for (vaginal or anal) penetrative intercourse to take place,' she says. What you do from here depends on your genital combination and sexual preferences. 'If it's comfortable, the seated-on-top person can wrap their legs tightly around their partner's torso while the bottom partner pulls you both together with their arms,' says Queen. This book is quite faithful to the original written by Vatsyayana. To get into this position, have one partner-the partner who's going to be doing the penetrating with a dildo, penis, or fingers (if any penetration is going to be taking place!)-drop their bum onto the bed (or floor, or couch!) and assume a crisscross applesauce position.įacing them, have the second straddle them and lower down so that you're both chest-to-chest and eye-to-eye. Kama Sutra sex positions are introduced with photos.
